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He Says:

A threesome, albeit taboo can add spice to a somewhat boring sex life. Where people tend to fall short is using the third person to substitute a trait their partner may lack. If the threesome is done simply for the adventure of adding some heat to the bedroom then all is well and good. The minute emotions jumpstart, the act or series of acts have gone too far. The only voids a threesome are to fill are carnal. They are not to be used to repair any emotional or relationship related drama.

One must never bond personally with the third person either. Beyond medical history and sexual preferences, there should be no further camaraderie with the additional person. Leave no room for personal bonds.

Unless one is accustomed to this lifestyle, I would avoid jumping right into it. Try voyeurism first, or go to a swingers club and talk to other couples about their experiences. Learn all the pros and cons. Inviting someone else into your sacred space is risky enough. Please know exactly what you are getting yourselves into.  Inviting someone else to join into your sexual activity does not have to be destructive drama. There is much pleasure to be had if done right.

She Says:

Ok I’m just going to put it out there, I don’t think anything good could come out of letting another person in on something that’s supposed to be sacred between TWO.

The suggestion that a threesome would add excitement to a dull relationship is pure bull.
If you want to spice up a boring sec life you often hear people use blindfolds and feathers or if you are feeling really bold purchase We Vibe 3 from a Passion party <—Yes, I’ve done my research on which particular one would be the most effective.

I think that it takes a special kind of jerk to ask his mate for a threesome. It is indeed opening up Pandora’s box. There are so many what if’s that will drive you crazy.

For the selfish male this plan to add spice could backfire and now his heterosexual boo is now a homosexual one.

Ultimately couples have to do what’s right for them. Hey, if YOU like it- I love it! Do you boo 😉